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Amber Alspach

August 29, 1989 — August 10, 2021



Amber Dawn Alspach, 31, passed away on Tuesday, August 10, 2021, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma.

Amber was born on August 29, 1989, in Bartlesville, Oklahoma to Scott Alspach and Beckey (Russell) Tharp. Amber attended Nowata and Oklahoma Union Schools where she received her education. She was a lifetime resident of Delaware, Oklahoma. Amber enjoyed reading books, fishing and spending time with her friends and family. But most of all she especially loved her niece Jayli to which she referred to as “my precious”! Amber was always such a kind and caring person who had an infectious smile and wit that would light up any room. She was a loving daughter, sister, aunt, friend. She loved her family unconditionally and will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

Amber is survived by her parents, Scott and Terri Alspach of Nowata, Ok, Beckey and Kevin Tharp of Delaware, OK;  a sister Cassie Jones and husband Justin of Delaware, OK; her precious niece Jayli Jones of Delaware, OK; step siblings, Jeremy Snyder and wife Sage of Oologah, OK, Tiffani Miller of Wichita, KS, Kim Stewart and husband Jeff of Delaware, OK, Amanda Almusawi and husband Amir of Turley, OK; maternal grandmother Betty Russell of Nowata, OK; best friend Jessica Flower of Delaware, OK and numerous of aunts, uncles and cousins.

Graveside service will be held at 10:00a.m., Friday, August 20, 2021, at the Ball Cemetery in Childers, OK, with Pastor Johnathan Long officiating. Services are under the direction of Benjamin Funeral Services in Nowata, Oklahoma. Online condolences may be left at or Benjamin Funeral Service’s Facebook page.

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Friday, August 20, 2021

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Ball Cemetery

, OK 74048

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